Tribute Wall
Thursday
1
January
Mass of Christian Burial
Thursday, January 1, 1970
St. Gabriel's RC Church - Parish Center Gymnasium
100 North Main St.-Route 79
Marlboro, New Jersey, United States
Service Time: 10:00 AM
Friday
31
January
Interment at: St. Gabriel's Cemetery
11:15 am
Friday, January 31, 2014
St. Gabriel's Cemetery
549 Route 520
Marlboro , New Jersey, United States
First Visitation
When Wednesday, January 29th, 2014 7:00pm - 9:00pm
Location
Freeman Manalapan-Marlboro FH
Address
344 US Highway 9 North
Manalapan, NJ
07726
Second Visitation
When Thursday, January 30th, 2014 4:00pm - 8:00pm
Location
Freeman Manalapan-Marlboro FH
Address
344 US Highway 9 North
Manalapan, NJ
07726
Service Information
When
Friday, January 31st, 2014 10:00am
Officiating
Reverend Eugene J. Roberts
Location
St. Gabriel's Main Church
Address
100 North Main Street
Marlboro, NJ
07746
Service Extra Info
PLEASE NOTE THAT THE FUNERAL MASS WILL BE HELD IN THE PARISH CENTER GYMNASIUM WHICH IS THE BUILDING BEHIND THE MAIN CHURCH ON ROUTE 79, MARLBORO.
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Addie Reda posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
Cant believe a year has gone by since we lost you. Miss you everyday. Mom and I talk several times a week, and now as in the past, our stories turn into "JJ Stories" They always did lol. You did a lot of living in your 28 years. We have some rough days and the holidays were hard without you and your beautiful smiling face at the table on Christmas Eve was so missed.
Everyone gets signs from you and we feel you with us all the time. It helps me knowing how you lived your life to the fullest each and everyday! You were a one in a million kind of guy!
Love you and miss you like crazy,
Aunt Ad
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Jaime posted a condolence
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Time goes by so fast and so slow. Already a year has gone by. But no matter how much time passes there will always be an empty spot in the hearts of Jerome's family and friends that won't be filled until they see him again. The promise found at John 5:28,29 gives us hope that there will be a time when we will see him again. And in the book of Job 14:14,15 we see that God has a yearning to reunite us with our loved ones. Again I'm so sorry for your loss. My sincere, heartfelt condolences.
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Aunt Ad & Uncle Frank posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
JJ...We are and always will be your biggest fans. Your love of family was so obvious every time we were together. 28 years with you was not enough, but the memories and the wonderful times we had together are more than most people experience in 100 years. You will always be in our hearts and we will remember how you lived your life with courage and grace. Till we meet again my JJ...Love Aunt Ad & Uncle Frank
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Dad, Pops posted a condolence
Friday, February 21, 2014
JJ,You are my Heart and Soul.When you started this battle almost 8 yrs ago, I said I would never leave your side,and in your last hours I whispered in your ear How Proud I am of You,and You Never Let Me Down. Your are a Son every Father would Dream of Having,I was just the Lucky One to have You,I will miss you, and will be at your side in Heaven.You were and will always be My Guy, Love Dad
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jaime posted a condolence
Friday, January 31, 2014
I know that there are simply no words that can ease the pain of losing someone so beloved. May the God of all comfort be with all Jerome's family and friends during this time of intense grief and always. (2 Cor 1:3,4) I'm sorry for your loss.
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Rekha Datta posted a condolence
Thursday, January 30, 2014
It has been my honor and privilege to know Jerry and his wonderful family. I will always cherish the sweetness of Jerry's nature and smile. He taught me how to keep smiling, even through life's most challenging moments. Thoughts and prayers for the family, and thank you, Jerry, for your friendship; you have been a blessing to humanity through your kindness.
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Maureen and Tom Vittoria lit a candle
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
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You will Forever be in our Hearts
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Sarah Stackhouse lit a candle
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
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To Amanda and Jerry's Family- I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Even though I only knew Jerry for a short time, his presence in my life was more than enough to touch my heart and never be forgotten. He was such an amazing person with so much life who touched not only my life with his kindness, eternal optimism, and gigantic heart, but countless others as well. He will be remembered forever and greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to you and your family during this difficult time. Sending my love to you always.
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The Mingione Family lit a candle
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
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To the entire Messana family, words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for loss. You are and will always be in our prayers. God bless you during this difficult time.
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Rosanna Corvino posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Mrs. Messana, Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you & family in this difficult time. You will be in our thoughts & prayers. With Deepest sympathy, The Corvino family
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Pat Scott posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Dear Messana Family, So sorry to hear about Jerry. I had the pleasure of Jerry's presence in our CBA religious studies class...just a wonderful, enthusiastic young man who brought a smile to everyone he met. Prayers for peace and love during this most difficult time and faith in the Resurrection where you will see Jerry once again. Peace, Pat Scott (CBA-retired)
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Erin Conrad posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
I have met Jerry on several occasions and on each one, he was so friendly and upbeat. People were always happier around Jerry - he was that kind of person that makes the room brighter when he walks in. Heaven is brighter now that he is there. Jerry's family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers; I know he will be missed very much.
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Derrick & Maryann Burno posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
Thank you for sharing Jerry with us. I pray that you know that we all loved him and will miss him dearly. May God comfort you and your family. Jerry was certainly a shining light that will never dim. Oliver has lost a true friend.
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John & Marie McGovern posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
We feel as though we've been blessed to have been graced by Jerry's big heart and his inviting personality. It is truly the mark of wonderful parents and wonderful family. Every bit of our hearts go out to you all during this most difficult time.
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mr mrs james tedesco mrs,t posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
with our deepest sympathy may guide through all your pain
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Aunt Pat lit a candle
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
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To the Messana family,
Jerry, was my nephew, godson, friend and one of the strongest people I knew, Hopefully the strength he has shown during his short, but full life will be an inspiration to others in theirs. i know he will be that to me and more. I love him and will miss him, his constant smile, his sense of humor and his style!! RIP J, you deserve it.
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Brian Carlson posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
I had the pleasure of meeting Jerry and his family about 5 years ago. He used to come into my old job and we would talk for hours. There were entire afternoons where Jerry and Chris would keep me company and we would watch college football for hours. I'm grateful to say that we became friends. Not long after, Jerry invited me to come work for him. I'm still with that company today. If I ever had a day when I was feeling down, I, by some miracle, would always get a surprise call or text from him asking how I was doing. It's almost like he could sense when someone needed a friend. He always put other people first and would rather know how you were doing than talk about himself. Jerry was always smiling and always remained positive. His constant strength and bravery are what makes him a true hero in my book. I'm sad to lose a friend, but I'm grateful knowing that he will be in heaven watching over us like the true angel that he is. Thank you Jerry for everything you have done for myself and all of the other lives you touched. My condolences to the entire Messana family.
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Robert and Sharon Altonen lit a candle
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
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Words cannot express our sadness.May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time. In Loving Memory of Jerome C Messana
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Daniel Donatelli and Marilyn Miller lit a candle
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
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In memory of Jerry.
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Stephen Coppola posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Met Jerry in 1997 playing in the St. Gabe's basketball league and reconnected in 2001 in CYO. Too many stories to share in such a small space. They all had one thing in common though they all ended with a laugh and a smile, except the time I landed on his foot playing volleyball and sprained my ankle that hurt too much to smile. A truly great person who could always brighten my day just by being around him. I am sure I am far from the only one who feels that way, we'll miss you Chief. FFQ will always live on in spirit.
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Jennifer Cooley lit a candle
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
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To Amanda and Jerry's Family: My heart broke upon learning of Jerry's passing. Jerry was such an amazing person who was loved and cherished by so many people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I hope the wonderful memories of Jerry's life help you to find peace.
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JoEmma Sauer (Jack's Aunt) posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
I have met Jerry several times when he was with my nephew, Jack Donatelli.
I remember Jerry came over my Mother's (Jack's Grandmother)with Jack one day and cooked dinner for her when she was not feeling well.
I Thought that was a beautiful and kind gesture.
Jerry was a wonderful young man and he will be missed by all who knew him.
Our hearfelt sympathy to his family and friends.
Warmest Regards,
JoEmma and Steve Sauer
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Leah Rae & Ali Ostroff lit a candle
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
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Amanda and Jerry's Family: Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Jerry will remain in our hearts forever.
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Debra Young posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Dear Jerry and Family: We know that Jerry Jr. is now being held in Jesus' arms and he is being comforted and in peace for all the love he gave while with us, and the courage he so bravely showed. God will wipe all your tears, and there will be no more crying, as Jerry has gone on ahead to help God prepare for your family in Heaven, when you will see him again. I pray for your continued strength and comfort.
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Sandra Vargo posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Words cannot express the sorrow in my heart at the loss of Jerome. May God bless your family and give you the strength to endure your grief and the courage to be Jerome's legacy. With deepest sympathy.
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Ken and Kay Marcia posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Jerry We are so sorry for your loss and have been touched by your family's closeness, support and dedication during the most difficult of times. With heartfelt sorrow. Ken and Kay
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Lori posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Amanda....there are no words. Know that you are loved by so many and that we will be here for you every minute of every day. With much love, Lori.
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Lynne Morgan posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
I only met "JJ" one time...he was such a beautiful person. I am so profoundly sorry that the world has lost his gentle spirit. My deepest condolences to his entire family.
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Ralph & Nina Marinello posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Please accept our deepest condolences. We will keep Jerome and your entire family in our prayers. The Marinello Family Ralph, Nina, Ralph A. and Anessa
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Dana Donatelli and Adam Sassaman posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Dana Donatelli and Adam Sassaman made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Jerry will be forever remembered and loved by us all.
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Jenn posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Jenn made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies. If you need a friend to help you through this, you know who to call.
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Joe and Lorraine Kelly posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Joe and Lorraine Kelly made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies.
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Jack Donatelli posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Jack Donatelli made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
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Laura Lytle posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Laura Lytle made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
In loving memory of your beloved son Jerry. My heart goes out to you and your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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Joan and Bob Donatelli posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Joan and Bob Donatelli made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
With Deepest Sympathy. Jerry will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. He will be forever in our hearts.
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Mr. & Mrs. James Mercogliano posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Mr. & Mrs. James Mercogliano made a donation to ST JUDE CHILDRENS RESEARCH HOSPITAL INC
From our family to yours, our deepest heartfelt sympathies. We are so sorry for your loss. You remain in our hearts and in our prayers. Jim and Antoinette.
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Chris and Stacy Johnson posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Chris and Stacy Johnson made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Our love and prayers are with you during this time. We are so sorry for your loss.
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John & Roseanne Mazzola posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
John & Roseanne Mazzola made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
We are so sorry for your loss and are extending our deepest sympathy to all of you. Jerry and his family have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Kevin Phelan posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Kevin Phelan made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Jerry will be greatly missed. Though I had graduated a few years prior, I was fortunate enough to get to know him through Sigma Pi and immediately could see that he was going to make an impact. I will never forget seeing him for the first time returning to Monmouth after he'd been treated. Though his body was clearly weakened, he was wearing a smile from ear to ear from just being able to be back together with everyone and exhibited his truly unbreakable spirit. In the years since, we'd cross paths occasionally and while I knew he had been in and out of treatment more times, not once did he ever mention it. He always greeted me with a laugh and a smile regardless of his health and it amazed me every time. I'm proud to call him my Sigma Pi brother and grateful for the opportunity to know him. My deepest sympathies for such a huge loss. I can only hope that knowing he no longer has to fight what has surely been an exhausting battle, will begin to bring you all peace. Rest In Peace my friend, it has been an honor.
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Jill & Scott Glenn posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Jill & Scott Glenn made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
We are so sorry for your loss, and will be sending our thoughts and prayers for all of you at this time. We hope that Jerry will live on in the hearts and memories of his family and friends.
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Amanda Dolinsky and Andrew Lam posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Amanda Dolinsky and Andrew Lam made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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Wendy Catalano posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Wendy Catalano made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Our deepest sympathies,Wendy Catalano, Janet Dimino, Fran Collins, Kathy Lugara
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Amanda's family tree posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Amanda's family tree made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Jerry was a wonderful person and truly an inspiration to us. We are all here if you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask. We love you. ZLAM - Stefanie, Brigid, Erika, Hannah and Morgan
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Katie posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Katie made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
My thought and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I am truly sorry for you loss.
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Sarah Stackhouse posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Sarah Stackhouse made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
To Amanda and Jerry's Family- I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Jerry was an amazing person with so much life who touched so many with his kindness, eternal optimism, and gigantic heart. He will be forever remembered and greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to your and your family during this difficult time. Love always.
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Lafayette Mills PTA posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Lafayette Mills PTA made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. From our family to yours, our most heartfelt sympathies.
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The McLoone Family posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
The McLoone Family made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies.
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john+kathleen derent posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
john+kathleen derent made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
we are so sorry for your loss.
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Celeste and Ryan Casey and Nicolette Fable posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Celeste and Ryan Casey and Nicolette Fable made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
During this difficult time we would like to extend our most heartfelt sympathies.
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AUNT PAT & NICOLE posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
AUNT PAT & NICOLE made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
OUR DEEPEST LOVE AND SYMPATHIES FOR ALL.
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Ken & Kay Marcia posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Ken & Kay Marcia made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies and hopefully the donation helps the future.
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Christina Georgas and the Verheyen Family posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Christina Georgas and the Verheyen Family made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
I had the honor and privilege of working with Jerry at McLoone’s. Every day he lit up the room as soon as he came in with the brightest smile, a bright light! His optimism, courage, and positivity were ALWAYS an inspiration. We had each other’s back at work; it was a blessing to be able to call him my friend! Although he will be missed terribly, take comfort knowing that Jerry’s light will never be extinguished. He is now in God’s kingdom; God has prepared a special place for Jerry. His light will shine on, in you and around you. May the Holy Spirit guide you and protect your families today and every day. Listen to God's voice through prayer.
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Kristen English, Meredith Cooke, Cat Corbo, Doug Buckley, and Jenn & Isaac Satten posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Kristen English, Meredith Cooke, Cat Corbo, Doug Buckley, and Jenn & Isaac Satten made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Amanda--we cannot begin to imagine the depth of your loss. Jerry was certainly a great man, and you two were so lucky to have shared the time you did together. We hope you find comfort and peace in your happy memories, and we will keep you and your families in our thoughts and prayers.
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Dottie and Gary Cooper posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Dottie and Gary Cooper made a donation to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Jerry was a light in every life he touched. When we think life is getting a little tough, we often think of his eternal optimism and it gets us through. We should all live our lives like Jerry did. It was an honor to call him our friend. God Bless.
