Tuesday, March 5, 2013
March 5, 2013
Dear Walt and "Kids,"
It was with sadness today that I read Steve Buckley's email informing me of Eva's passing. I was so pleased to know that I could still connect with my Dad's best friend and what's happening in your lives. I think of you all fondly, and recall with a smile the times our families shared back yard picnics and the like.
I remember that Eva believed in her children so passionately that she would NOT let them fail, and them loved deeply, as only a mother can. There were many discussions around the picnic table about honey. I have always remembered how she told of how "Little Walter" was sick unto death as an infant, but she fed him honey, a drop at a time, and she KNEW that that was what kept him alive. Today they say not to give honey to babies, but it never stopped me - because Eva KNEW, and I trusted her more that some of the modern medical theories! I was just a kid when I heard that story, but it is one that touched me deeply, and that I carry with me always. Every time a drop of honey touches my tongue, I think of you Walt, and of Eva feeding that baby honey, one drop at a time.
I know that the friendship you and my Dad had was the link that bonded our families, but my Mom so enjoyed visiting with Eva and hearing the stories of how the kids were doing. At some point someone sent me a picture cut out of the paper of a spring robin that had nested in your Christmas Wreath still hanging on the front door. I think that everybody felt welcome at the Wilson's house, not just because of the "honey man" Walt, but because of Eva's caring concern for others and her ability to stand up for what she thought was right.
I regret that it has been so long a time since I saw all of you guys, but life moves along, and we are but in the middle of the stream, where as my Dad used to say, it runs fastest! But I have YOU Walt in hunting pictures my Dad took, and I treasure you all in my memory. I am happy to hear that all the kids (and grand kids!) are doing well, and I'm sure they will look after their Dad, much as their mom (and grandmother) will keep watch over all of you.
In the next few weeks and months, nay, years, know that I will be thinking of you all, often, and lovingly.
Dennie Moyle-Shaffer
